• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    When I was online dating it was code for, “I don’t want to hear your MAGA shit.” I dated a lot, and talked to more women than I ended up seeing. I found zero exceptions to that code.

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      19 hours ago

      That’s funny, whenever I saw “I’m not political” in dating apps, it was because they were hiding their MAGA shit. Women don’t want to fuck conservatives (generally).

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        17 hours ago

        Because every single conservative out there – every last one – wants to turn them into an enslaved tradwife baby factory.

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          17 hours ago

          Mhm- claiming that it’s women that are choosing to be non-political on dating apps as a way of discriminating against men is an interesting way of framing it lol

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            I think you read wrong? It says that are maga men that hide their political values because women do not want to became servants and baby factories i think

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              When I was online dating it was code for, “I don’t want to hear your MAGA shit.” I dated a lot, and talked to more women than I ended up seeing. I found zero exceptions to that code.

              There’s a chance salafi is a lesbian, but otherwise this reads like women were putting in their dating profile that they aren’t political because “they don’t want to hear MAGA shit” from the men that are seeing their dating profile.

              As a bisexual woman, I found way more men putting in their profile that they aren’t political in order to hide their MAGA views.

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                11 hours ago

                You got me right the first time, exactly so. Maybe men hid their MAGA the same way? By my god, the tales I heard about first dates with MAGA dudes were appalling. Motherfuckers would start yelling about Trump on the first date! Can you fucking imagine?!

                Talking to one girl: “LOL, I’m kind of a redneck.”

                “Uh, just how redneck?”

                “I fucking loathe Trump if that’s what you’re asking.”

                “Oh. Whew! Just had to check.”

                She was great!

                Every woman I talked to or dated was like that in NW Florida.

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                  11 hours ago

                  Ahhh NW Florida, that checks out. Always happy to bump into other queer women here, welcome :)

                  I’m up in the very blue PNW and as such only really ran across MAGA men trying to hide their politics in their dating bios. All the ladies I found were already pretty left-leaning and were more than happy to make it obvious haha