• Gyrcas@piefed.zip
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    3 days ago

    I found what works best for me is to flirt with people online, not on a dating app, but here for example. Then if they respond, become friends with them, learn about each other. If there is good chemistry, ask them out. If they accept, you now have a new person in your relationship, if they don’t, it’s still good because you have a friend :3

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        2 days ago

        Depends on where you are, but even then, nowadays 1000 miles is not impossible distance to cover

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          1 day ago

          If you are rich, sure, no problem whatsoever.

          If you barely get by, try travelling around regularly on a whim like that. I don’t consider myself poor, but I wouldn’t do it, it just doesn’t sound like a financially safe decision, especially considering the times ahead.

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            1 day ago

            It’s definitely not something to do regularly or on a whim, but sometimes people do that. I’m not saying moving like that is simple, just that is easier than when you were more likely to die on the way then to arrive